Household

In the morning you get up, go to the bathroom, then go to the kitchen and just make a cup of coffee for breakfast. You want nothing. You cannot see all these plates, pans, and cups? Have a leave!

The work on keeping the house is considered to be the hardest in the world. Its peculiarity is in its endlessness. It is never over. You cannot stop preparing meal for your family. You cannot stop washing the dishes. You cannot stop mending kids’ clothes.

YOU ARE TIRED!

Tell your family that you are on a leave. A paid leave. Yes, they are not mistaken. You were saving money for a new luxurious home theatre? It can wait. You cannot. So take this money and go away for a week.

Get prepared for your leave. Write down detailed instructions for each member of your family.

Children must water the indoor plants in time and keep rooms in order. Your husband must provide meals and entertainment for kids and participate in all their affairs.

They also have to look after pets if you have any.

Just do it and have a free time. In a couple of days you will have an intention to come back… Do not interrupt your leave if everything is ok.

If you come home and see a neat house and happy kids, you are a very good housewife!

It’s a common knowledge that the art of household changed a lot over the centuries. People created some helpful devices, but they also became unable to do some thing with their hands. Moreover, nowadays all the adults in most families work and don’t have enough time to manage with their household.
However, it is a normal thing, not extraordinary. You should just plan everything together well. Besides, there are some common advices.
Firstly, you should divide the duties. For example, a husband can do all the repairs needed; maybe prepare food or something like that if he is able to. Children can clean their rooms, wash the dishes, do some work in the garden, e.g. cut grass. The main thing you should remember is that everyone can have some spare time for himself.
Then, learn something about some modern devices that help a lot. For example, if machines will do washing instead of you, you will have about 5 free hours a week. Just imagine; it really helps if you follow this advice.
Finally, don’t be keen on keeping the house – it’s all just things. They were created by people, so people could manage them, couldn’t they?
Never let your things interfere with your life; they are just things around you. Find proper places for them. It’s a hard task? Isn’t it&

First, let’s investigate. You are offended at the children, because they do not help you at home, to keep for themselves? Just make them useless to their outrage. Good to remember who brought them such?
Many women are trying to exempt children (especially sons) of the daily household troubles, trying to cause a sense of gratitude for the percussion work, unconsciously seeking to be necessary, indispensable. But there are other ways to prove their need or simply to become a favorite!
Remember: regular, and doing everything for everybody, and then accusing family of laziness, you risk forever discourage your friends wish to communicate with you, the more talk of souls, to share secret. Therefore, consider yourself and honestly answer the question: what’s important for you to – with relatives or shining clean apartment?
If you desire to clean up every day due to no subconscious attempt to be an indispensable and essential to the purity of love, tell me: «I am not obliged to go, I just want to clean house!» Here’s see: you will do, in fact, routine cases quite another mood! And some cases, it is likely to defer to a more convenient time, without prejudice to their own feelings.

For those who already understand their teaching misses and decided to radically restructure the relationships within the family, it must be remembered that this should be very natural, not deliberately, defiantly. Therefore, at this time, try to distract yourself from mental chewing the cud something interesting. Otherwise, a new form of behavior may well lead you to the need to «sit» on antidepressants.